Mother Brutally Flogged Her 12 year old Daughter, With A Belt 4 Posing Semi-Nude On Facebook (PHOTOS+ VIDEO)
A video showing a mother from Trinidad
and Tobago whipping her 12-year-old daughter with a belt for sharing sexually
explicit photos of herself on Facebook has gone viral, sparking a national
conversation in the island nation about corporal punishment.
Last
Sunday, a video was posted on Facebook showing Helen Bartlett, a mother of four
from Point Fortin, beating her sobbing daughter while hurling profanities at
her.
The
six-minute clip, which depicts Ms Bartlett raining blows on the 12-year-old
girl, who whimpers in pain and cowers from the belt, has been shared more than
43,000 online.
Asked if she regretted her actions, Ms
Bartlett, who has three girls and a boy, said she stood by her mode of
discipline, but she was sorry that the video intended to shame her 12-year-old
has gained such notoriety.
Ms
Bartlett explained that since the girl's father, a police officer, left them,
the child has been unmanageable.
The
single mother added that she has exhausted all avenues trying to keep her
daughter on the straight and narrow, including seeking counselling for her.
And
according to Ms Bartlett, the 12-year-old's father has been of no help, telling
the girl that he wanted nothing to do with her
What sparked the
brutal beating last Sunday in the Bartletts’ apartment was a salacious text
message exchange between the 12-year-old girl and a boy her age, who was trying
to convince her to have sex with him.
After the mother read
the messages, she accessed her underage daughter's Facebook profile and
discovered photos of the girl posing 'seductively' in her underwear.
Helen Bartlett
explained that while her child is pretty and intelligent, she has a low
self-esteem and is susceptible to peer pressure.
Her worst fear is
that if the 12-year-old continues down this road, one day she is either going
to come home pregnant, or will end up dead on the streets.
‘I stand firmly by my decision. I will go to
jail for it,’ the woman said. ‘I know people are saying the authorities should
charge me for abuse.’
Asked about her
daughter's state of mind following the release of the controversial video, Ms
Bartlett said the girl was coping 'unexpectedly well.'
In her response
video, the daughter said she knew her mother loves her dearly, and she
reassured the viewers that has no intention of killing herself because she
loves herself 'too much.'
The girl has not been
to school since the video went viral, and her mother said she has been
preparing her for potential bullying and mockery from her classmates.
Defending Helen
Bartlett's old-school brand of discipline, her older daughter explained in her
counter video that with their father not around anymore, there is no male
figure in the family to set her out-of-control sibling straight.
‘The road my sister
was heading down was teenaged pregnancy,’ she said. ‘She saw this as a way she
could stop it. My sister has learnt her lesson.’
Speaking out for the
first time since the incident, the 12-year-old at the center of the firestorm
said: ‘I am very sorry for bringing shame on you and the family. I know you
love me dearly. And I love you dearly, too.’
The girl then
appealed to other children her age, urging them to watch the video of her
beating and learn from it.
‘You are a special piece of God’s puzzle,’ the
girl said. ‘And don’t let what happen to me happen to you also.’
The incident sparked
a heated public debate in Trinidad and Tobago over the issue of corporal
punishment, and whether Helen Bartlett’s actions displayed in the video crossed
the line.
According to Jamaica Observer,
Trinidad and Tobago's Ministry of Gender, Youth and Child Development has
weighed in on the issue, calling on parents to use 'non-physical forms of
discipline.
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