Man Caught Wife Cheating On Him

I want to kill my wife. Imagine the pretentious unfaithful woman I married. I've been shattered and broken since Friday. I'm a man but I've cried. Where did I go wrong?

I've tried to be a loving. Caring and faithful husband and father but what did I get?


We seemed a happy family nau, we've had our shortcomings as a couple, like every other couple but we were happy.

My wife has always been very God fearing and churcheous,or so she made me believe.

On Friday,like most others,she told me she was going for a Vigil after work. She had left the house before I got in from the office, the kids dropped off with grandma. I was therefore home alone when my friends called to hang out with them at a Bar in Ikeja, i reluctantly did because am usually not the hanging out type.

We were at the bar having fun over drinks and generally catching up on school days when we noticed a car's flash on another car thereby exposing the people inside,a man and a woman obviously smooching and all. We laughed nd made little gossip of it but it caught our attention anyways and from time to time we looked towards the car monitoring the event, at a point we noticed the woman was bent low in what seemed like a blow job and a friend mentioned In passing" you go surprise say na person wife be dat o", my voice was the loudest in condemning the woman if indeed she's someone's wife while I thanked God openly for giving me a God fearing responsible wife who would never stoop so low to indulge in such.

About an hour later, show over, the couple in the car stepped out of the car coming towards the bar, Lo and behold,to the full glare of my friends, that woman was my wife,my own wife, my God fearing responsible wife. What a public shame, ridicule and disgrace.



Why are women like this? What did she want? I thought we had it all. I feel too bad,so depressed. She hasn't been home since but has sent everyone we hold in high esteem to beg but walahi, if I catch that woman I will kill her''


*Stammering* erm erm why dont you hear her out first?At least sit with her,listen to her and hear why she did what you caught her doing?


Could be partly your fault,I am not saying that you pushed her into another mans arms but hear her out first before you take any drastic action.

Look at it this way,if she caught you and you begged,wouldnt you want her to forgive you?


I wish you all the best!