FOR THE LADIES:How To Hook An Igbo Man For Marriage

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Hundreds of thousands of Igbo single ladies will be heading to their villages and other parts of Igboland within the Christmas and New Year seasons hoping to start relationships with Igbo men that will lead to marriage. But hooking and dating an Igbo guy need lots wisdom, skills and strategies before the relationship will lead to the altar. Here are my winning tips for the ladies:


1. DRESS DECENTLY: An average Igbo man is very conservative and may not approve your dressing that shows off your female anatomy. Those tight fitting trousers, miniskirts and transparent blouses will scare him away that you are a hustler not a wife material

2. NEVER SHOW SUPERIORITY: No matter your family or educational success, never try to prove to an Igbo man that he is inferior. He has a very large ego to a point of pomposity. Never tell him that another guy dress better than him, speak better or a better gentleman than him. He is the King of his jungle and treat him like one.

3. ALLOW HIM TO SHOW YOU OFF: You are like a new house he has bought or even a new car, please allow him to show you off to friends and relatives. Always smile after his lengthy introduction and tell whoever that cares to listen that he is one of the best things that have ever happen to you. Be his Queen with humility and class

4. SHOW REAL INTREST IN HIS FAMILY: Ask after his relatives and memorize their names. Dating an Igbo guy is dating his entire family especially his mother and sisters. Befriend them, speak well of them and be nice to them or they will rock your love boat

5. DRAW A LINE ON SEX: Some unmarried Igbo men do not ask for sex, they demand it as sign of a ladies commitment to the relationship. In fact, some will refuse to propose until the lady agrees to be his constant sex partner. If a lady foolishly fall to the trap, she had cheapen herself before him and devalued her dignity. Many are real players and hit and run Casanovas that are using marriage proposal as a hook to an unending sexual encounters with the lady

6. NEVER ASK HIM FOR MONEY: Some ladies believe that Igbo men are ATM machines that foolishly dispense money without thinking but the guys are very wise and smart. Asking him money for recharge cards, sharwama, Ice cream and transportation gives you away as a material girl. Instead of asking, buy fruits, ties, singlet and other gifts for him. He will respect you and reciprocate by giving you good gifts and money too

7. NEVER CORRECT HIM IN PUBLIC: My brothers can be talkative and may mix up tenses and even say I ROVE YOU instead of I love you but just smile and wait till you marry him. Try to speak Igbo to him and ask him always about his business, health and family members.

8. BE SPIRITUAL-No responsible man wants to marry a club girl or a lady indifferent to spiritual matters. Never project yourself as someone only interested in night clubs, beer palours and watching masquerades. Buy Bible for him as New Year gift. Buy audio and video CDs for his spiritual growth. But never behave as a Born again fanatic that is too judgmental and not social

9. TIMOTHY OFOEGBU is a marriage counselor and relationship advisor. You can WHATSAPP or call him on 08037777755 on any problematic relationship issues.
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